ARNETT, Brenda K., age 55 of Miamisburg, passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, November 7, 2017 at her residence. She was born February 6, 1962 in Cincinnati, OH to the late Clarence and Irene Magdalene (Reed) Havens. In addition to her parents, Brenda was preceded in death by her husband, Patrick L. Arnettt (2013) and long-time companion, Tom Kidwell (2016) as well as sisters, Beverly Havens and Angie Havens. She is survived by her children, David E. Helton of Miamisburg, Myles L. Arenett of London, OH, Roxanna M. Arnett of Arizona and April P. Blackstone of Dayton; grandchildren, Skylar, Serena, David Jr., Willow, Ronnie Jr., Airyanna and Brianna; a brother, Tommy Havens of Dayton; sister-in-law, Maria Vogel and special friends, Glenna, Ashley and her home health aids. Brenda was a graduate of West Carrollton and was blessed to have had my jobs in the restaurant industry to help support and provide for her family including Mom's Diner, Vera's, Nick's Diner, McDonalds and Denny's. Brenda always supported St. Vincent de Paul and enjoyed walking, collecting dolphins and watching TV shows like Wentworth and Dr. Phil. She was always thought of as a caregiver and spent a great deal of time helping to raise her grandchildren. She was also close to her faith, always keeping a bible nearby. Family will host a memorial service in her honor at a later date and she will be rested at Hillgrove Cemetery, Miamisburg following cremation. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Gebhart-Schmidt-Parramore Funeral Home at 508 E. Linden Ave., Miamisburg, OH 45342 to assist with her funeral expenses. To offer condolences, please visit Brenda's online memorial at www.gebhartschmidtparramore.com. Cremation Tobias Crematory
Tobias Funeral Home 11/8/17

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